I'm Dr. Adam Sheck, and I'd like to welcome you to the "Men After Fifty" Community! Living for more than half a century on this planet is a rite of passage and I wanted to create a place where we can share our wisdom and experience to help each other and to help those who matter in our lives. As true for many "men after fifty", I've had a number of careers over my … [Read More...]

Honestly, I feel this is going to be a matter of opinion. Some women don’t like dominant men and are not turned on by them especially in bed. Personally though, I’m a girl who prefers a guy who will take charge, knows what he’s doing and yet still puts my needs on the top of his priority list.
You are also correct in that people can choose to have better relationships and better sex. When you make both a priority both improve.
Rachel,
Not being a woman, I can’t give an opinion from that perspective, yet the research and the theory of evolutionary psychology seem to agree about the verdict on this one. AND, everyone is different, research just documents patterns and trends, not absolutes.
Thanks so much for sharing,
Adam