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King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Four Mature Masculine Archetypes

June 27, 2012 by drsheck · 6 Comments

King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Four Mature Masculine Archetypes

My purpose in this post is to give a context to other articles I am writing on the Men After Fifty blogsite for those men unfamiliar with the concepts of the masculine archetypes.  It is by no means comprehensive. It is simply a “quick and dirty” summary of the four mature masculine archetypes set forth in King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine by Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette.

The concept of archetypes was developed by Dr. Carl Jung, a pioneering psychiatrist of the twentieth century.  The archetypes are “innate, universal, psychic dispositions”.  This is a fancy way to say that deep inside each of us, are these psychological instincts which provide us with potential paths to express different aspects of our lives.

Just as physically we have inside us the capacity for language, waiting to be stimulated by our environment, we have these psychological capacities as well.  We have the seeds insides ourselves for expressing our masculinity, our femininity, our capacity for parenting, for organizing into a society and for so much more.

The archetypes are expressed through our mythologies, the stories passed down from generation to generation, through our symbols and the images, hopes and dreams that seem common to each civilization across time and geography.  If this concept seems challenging to wrap your mind around, don’t worry, because it IS challenging!

For the purpose of this post, let me just share some data on the four masculine archetypes presented by Moore and Gillette and perhaps it will begin to make some sense to you.  If not, don’t worry, just consider the possibility that within each of us, these four aspects of masculinity exist:

King, Warrior, Magician, Lover

Each archetype has its positive aspects as well as what Jung called its shadow aspects. The shadow generally has two “polarities” one being when it is too active, one when it is too passive.  Like the Goldilocks myth, we want it “just right”.

The King is the source of order in the Kingdom.  He provides for the health and safety of his subjects.  The shadow sides of the King are the Tyrant and the Weakling.

The Warrior is the source of energy, a doer, not a thinker.  Though he is a fighter, his ultimate fight is the battle within, for self-mastery.  The shadow sides of the Warrior are the Sadist and the Masochist.

The Magician is the wise man, the thinker.  His knowledge bridges the inner and outer worlds. He can withdraw from the outer world and channel the deeper, inner truths of the soul.  The shadow sides of the Magician are the Manipulator and the Innocent One, who wants the power without the responsibility.

The Lover is passionate, of the senses, and intuitive.  He is opposed to the structure and order which separate us and wants to connect us all as one.  The shadow sides of the Lover are the Addicted Lover and the Impotent Lover.

 

Our work is in growing from “boy” psychology to “man” psychology.  This is accomplished by integrating the different aspects of each archetype, allowing us to move from a position of enslavement of the ego to a place where one is an ally with the ego.

Accomplishing this is the work of a lifetime, which can start by defining for ourselves these four masculine archetypes including their shadows. Hopefully the basics have been laid out here for you and provide a new way to look at and improve your life.  I look forward to your comments and thoughts about this subject and will write more about it over time.

Thank you so much,

Adam Sheck

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Comments

  1. Patricia O'Neill says

    June 27, 2012 at 10:22 pm

    I find this article to be of great interest; I’ve posted it t my facebook account for friends to see. Thanks for this, Dr. Sheck.

    Reply
    • drsheck says

      June 27, 2012 at 10:54 pm

      Glad you enjoyed it, the followup will be MUCH more interesting and personal.
      Adam

      Reply
  2. Tom says

    June 30, 2012 at 12:40 am

    Along with “Knights Without Armor” this is one of the most important books on men, good article.

    Reply
    • drsheck says

      June 30, 2012 at 4:08 pm

      Thanks Tom, I appreciate it. This was just a basic article to give context for others that I’m writing. Wonder what your thoughts are about my latest on balancing Warrior and Lover?
      Take care,
      Adam

      Reply
  3. Debbianne DeRose says

    May 12, 2013 at 6:00 pm

    I dig it! I teach women how to MANifest® the Men of Their Dreams… and a balance of these four archetypal qualities sounds pretty darn dreamy. Basically we, as chicks, need to become more like the Women of Our Dreams, and then we are a match to the Men of Our Dreams, since like attracts like. Makes sense, right? Anyway, it’s good stuff you’re doing. Thanks to the almighty Twitterverse for connecting us. : )

    Reply
    • drsheck says

      May 13, 2013 at 3:47 pm

      Debbianne,
      I totally agree, like attracts like. Grateful to Twitter. I’ll support my people, you support your people and we’ll meet someplace in the middle 🙂
      Take care,
      Adam

      Reply

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